Monday, February 14, 2011

Love Redefined

It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. Do you wonder what is going on in your current life. Is it love, lust or bust? We  never know by ourself unless we are hurt.

We’ve been given the impression that to define love is near to impossible. Maybe there’s a fear that if we define it, it would somehow be less powerful...less impactful...less exhilarating. Maybe we like the mystery of it. But is it really that complicated? Perhaps the complications surrounding love come from all “stuff” we add on to this powerful emotion. 

U feel the heat when U love somebody regardless of his/her feelings , Love is care , Love stops ourselves from becming a monster.If u are close to permanent dead type of things , then u will miss the importance of life , As u never know  , how much life u  have  left now. Love controls the physical, the emotional, the mental, the social aspect of ur personality.

Love feels like a string attached to other person.Emotional Quotient plays an important factor in this.In the parental love this EQ is  motherly feeding  , which leaves strings attached to baby for mother. In case of ur love life it is the physical  intimacy which acts as a EQ  , and leaves strings attached from female to male/male to female.

 It is easier to be physically intimate with someone . You can become physically intimate with a person of the opposite sex in an hour, or half-hour -- it just depends upon the urge! But you soon discover that sex may only be a temporary relief for a superficial desire. There is a much deeper need that is still unmet.That urge for the deeper need  are the strings which are attached and acts as a EQ in a lovely relationship.

Marshall Hodge wrote a book called Your Fear of Love. In it he says, "We long for moments of expressions of love, closeness and tenderness, but frequently, at the critical point, we often draw back. We are afraid of closeness. We are afraid of love." Later in the same book Hodge states, "The closer you come to somebody, the greater potential there is for pain." It is the fear of pain that often drives us away from finding true intimacy.

I dont know it is scientifically correct or not  , but love gives us positive energy according to my experience.
Love is to forgive , wipes out regret and guilt , love is to act human .

Love a person  , and make thier day  , make them happy  , laugh , and make ur life cheerful , as u never know the importance of life left .