Monday, February 14, 2011

Love Redefined

It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. Do you wonder what is going on in your current life. Is it love, lust or bust? We  never know by ourself unless we are hurt.

We’ve been given the impression that to define love is near to impossible. Maybe there’s a fear that if we define it, it would somehow be less powerful...less impactful...less exhilarating. Maybe we like the mystery of it. But is it really that complicated? Perhaps the complications surrounding love come from all “stuff” we add on to this powerful emotion. 

U feel the heat when U love somebody regardless of his/her feelings , Love is care , Love stops ourselves from becming a monster.If u are close to permanent dead type of things , then u will miss the importance of life , As u never know  , how much life u  have  left now. Love controls the physical, the emotional, the mental, the social aspect of ur personality.

Love feels like a string attached to other person.Emotional Quotient plays an important factor in this.In the parental love this EQ is  motherly feeding  , which leaves strings attached to baby for mother. In case of ur love life it is the physical  intimacy which acts as a EQ  , and leaves strings attached from female to male/male to female.

 It is easier to be physically intimate with someone . You can become physically intimate with a person of the opposite sex in an hour, or half-hour -- it just depends upon the urge! But you soon discover that sex may only be a temporary relief for a superficial desire. There is a much deeper need that is still unmet.That urge for the deeper need  are the strings which are attached and acts as a EQ in a lovely relationship.

Marshall Hodge wrote a book called Your Fear of Love. In it he says, "We long for moments of expressions of love, closeness and tenderness, but frequently, at the critical point, we often draw back. We are afraid of closeness. We are afraid of love." Later in the same book Hodge states, "The closer you come to somebody, the greater potential there is for pain." It is the fear of pain that often drives us away from finding true intimacy.

I dont know it is scientifically correct or not  , but love gives us positive energy according to my experience.
Love is to forgive , wipes out regret and guilt , love is to act human .

Love a person  , and make thier day  , make them happy  , laugh , and make ur life cheerful , as u never know the importance of life left .

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Expressions of so called god...

"Hi name is not important. I have a comment. I don't like your attacks on the hindu faith. I think your ideas are full of shit. Let me tell you something. Atheist is the devils work. So go ahead bad mouth god. Your community will be blown up as long with you garbage or what ever happens. The hindu faith is not to brain wash people. That's just you people spreading lies. Your community is dedicated to nothing and that how it's going to be."

Fortunately, messages like this aren't all that common. We obviously don't think this represents the bulk of religious thought...but it does demonstrate the results of insular indoctrination and poor education. We are taught that god is every where , but in reality god is nowhere.Whenever I comment on atheism on Facebook , people are ready to kill me .

Asking an Indian whether he believes in God seems to be an unnecessary question considering the deep rooted religious and spiritual outlook that the society here is accustomed to. And you could be pardoned to dismiss Atheism in India as “Im the smartass” conversations among a few disillusioned youth outside 
the intimidating presence of hundreds of temples, churches and mosques. 

Question arises why every person is made swear on Gita in courts , why not other?
If a Hindu were to be asked to swear by the Quran, or a Christian by the Gita, there would be riots. But no one is bothered about the feelings of us athiests! In order to spare people from taking oaths on a variety of books, in the courts of Karnataka a placard is hung in the witness box that reads - 

‘I swear on the name of god that what I say is the truth and nothing but the truth.’ 

This is supposed to be a secular form of oath.

Second Question , The Special Marriages Act , 1954 allows us to marry without any religious beliefs and without any religious rituals.Still in the documentation it is written , " registration of a Hindu marriage under the special marriage act" , why?

These instances clearly shows thats the religiously breast feeded indian mind has not grown enough to accept the truth , he still beleives on non existent gods ...

Freedom of religion must include freedom from religion as well. - by an atheist

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Cash garland, statue, now a Mayawati temple

 Uttar Pradesh Chief Minister Mayawati is already facing a row of criticisms for encouraging cash garlands, erecting her own statues along with other dalit icons in the state and now, a temple in her name.

A lawyer in Mahoba district has sought permission from the authorities to build a temple after Mayawati in his own land. 

"Of course, we are planning to install her idol in the temple that will come up on my private land," said Kanaihya Lal, Mahoba-based lawyer. Lal equate the BSP supremo with Lord Buddha and said that there is nothing wrong in constructing a temple after her. "Mayawati is revered by the dalits and down trodden, she is like a goddess for many people in the country," he said.

Lal is not a functionary of the Bahujan Samaj Party (BSP) but a Dalit. He says he got provoked by the hue and cry over a garland of currency notes gifted to Mayawati on her birthday last month. "We are all set to build a temple where her followers will be free to offer such garlands every day," he added.
He has forwarded the application to the officials for further actions. Local officials have told him that since the proposed idol in the temple would be that of a living person, it would be appropriate to obtain formal permission from the person.

"Under the circumstances, I will now move a request to the chief minister through the district BSP coordinator," Lal said. 

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Indian Paisa League 2010

It is back in india , we all know , what ...... Hockey World Cup  ..... It is IPL !! The indian paisa league ...... is becoming bigger and bigger.......and biggest ....

Believe me it is on the verge of becoming richest and biggest league event in World.

Started on friday , with a grand opening ceremony , as grand as reminded to me as that of BEIJING oylmpics .
With an estimated enterprise value of $2 billion, Indian Premier League (IPL) is the World’s richest cricket tournament. It is one of the most awaited tournaments of the cricketing world. Top players from around the world align themselves to 8 Indian city franchises and sweat it out for 3 hours a day for 2 months.There will be businessmen, politicians, Bollywood stars and starlets, advertisers, audiences  and the cheer leaders and 2 months of unlimited Entertainment.

In a country of 1.2 billion people, most of whom are bonkers about cricket, the IPL is a symbol of everything they want India to become-a true global power.

No doubt that Indian Premier League (IPL) is the much viewed game than other sports. It has got the acceptance to the different ages’ people. Millions of people around the world always wait for the new edition of IPL.

India Dominates , we need to be proud of that fact !! IPL rules the cricket world.That is evident enough from the fact that few international players just retired from test cricket to maintain their fitness levels for T20 and other formats . Also The players who are rejected by their respective boards for playing at national level , wait eagerly for earning the QuickBuck here.The importance of IPL to each household is evident from High trp's of IPL matches , and higher investment in ads by companies , truly stated in an ad ,which fits on it exactly ,  that "There is no bigger Ticket that IPL ticket in india...."

In the Modi era cricketers can earn - pro rata, at least - sums to rival those of their footballing peers in English Premier League.

In 2008 he introduced cheerleaders to the game, causing a storm among conservatives. This year, he forged a deal with Google and YouTube to show live IPL matches online.

Now IPL2010 has been touted as "The World's Hottest Sports League"
 by "Peter J. Schwartz" for the magazine "FORBES" , he  writes ;

"Two years ago, IPL cricket was a pipe dream. Now it's the fastest-appreciating sports business on Earth."

That's what we all know , but what about its disastrous after effects , especially for test cricket and other sports specially in india. Also the speed at which IPL is becoming popular , is eating away all other international games events like Wimbeldon , Hockey World Cup and many more in India. Though we were lucky this time that Hockey World Cup just finished before the IPL ,The advertisement done in by the sponsor Hero Honda Paid Off ,  and more luckily it was in india , where Men in Blue with sticks , improved their position in the ultimate battle of sticks , Hockey World Cup proved out to be a high TRP , houseful , profitable event for FIH  , otherwise no one would have been dared to notice it. That  too compare the money given to each player in IPL and Indian Hockey Players , or other athletes , you will find the money given to each player in ipl is similar to the money given to whole team , sadly and ironically.Whats more disastrous is the attitude , of Indian government towards cricketers and hockey players , where ex hockey players like pillay and more others are even not given the pass to watch HWC in stadium.Moreover the power of Hockey india in FIH is negligible as compared to that of BCCI in ICC , as is evident from the controversial referel system imposed on india in the last knockout match on IND against SA , which lead to a improbable draw for india.

More over just compare the preperation and other teams , (For ex : Australia , who went on to win World Cup today , prepared 128 moves for the final in the 5 hour meeting of thier players and staff yesterday , and it paid off) ,  as compared to ignorance of Hockey India , which have members who never held a stick in thier life.

Truly Hats off to Australia who is rapidly becoming the pinnacle of each sport whether it is Hockey , Swimming , Cricket , Soccer etc.Thier cutting edge sports machines test the extremes of the sports person produced there.

More the popularity of IPL will increase , more the popularity of other sports will decrease , and India will become Uni Sport nation  , and then wish that Cricket would be part of Olympics .Then soon there will be a time where we will study in history about the national sport of india......
                                                                                                                         " Hockey World Cup"
                                                                                                                   Still a distant dream for India. 

Common Wealth Games also coming in Delhi in Oct  , can we put up the similar show as IPL10 , Or at least as Hockey World Cup finished yesterday , is itself a big question to be answered ?

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

A Holy Mess of a DhongiBaba

BABA means Father. But here at our house we use the name Baba for Grandpa. When I was younger and just starting to talk I couldn't say Grandpa. ... minor speech issues so i worked with the word to finally getting me to say Baba. The "B' sound is much easier ... quot;Gr" sound. However for western people it must be phonetically similar to "BABE" ,they must be confused with that ,  but it is name for our admiration in a common household in india.

The name Baba has stuck ever since.

Jai bhole baba ki.....

These words are meant for our inner peace and considered as sacred .
But nowadays in this commercialized age of devotion , These are PUNCHLINES.


Yoga Guru Baba Ramdev says, homosexuality is a VIRUS and he can cure it!

Sathya Sai Baba Serial Sexual Abuser of Boys and Young Men.

Kerala’s godmen on the run.

10 Babas including pilot baba and kirit baba exposed taking money in an sting operation.

Asaram Bapu faces arrest in an attempted murder case.

Rape Case Against ‘Godman’ of Bhopal

'Godman' nabbed with six women, sex racket busted

Yoga Guru Baba Ramdev announced to field candidates in next general elections -

These are the news we get to read every day....Which have mudsledged the word "BABA" .

I was horrified to see baba involved in sex scandal in delhi ....''The godman supplied high-class escorts. His clients often flew down to Delhi and stayed in five-star hotels,”

Many babas give child to childless couples by abusing the women , and play with the innocence and illetracy of poor people , who term that as "chamatkar".babas make lot of money in last rituals of a dead body , by saying that u can't see dead body by naked eyes , so take whisky , and then demand lots of money , while intoxicated.

And thus there are many more stories....

Modern babas carry laptop with expensive mobiles , and have girls all around them , they are more like "GODFATHER" rather than "GODMEN".They just cash in the deep faith of the emotional simple people...And the people get cheated in the process.

These babas are often invisible to general public , travel in business class , stay in five star hotels which they term as "asharams" .These babas say that they get money from followers outside india , but the reality is harsher. They like (asaram bapu) occupy the property of govt. , and Govt. is too shy to acknowledge this becoz of its vote bank . Many babas travel abroad on tourist visas in countries like germany  , poland , US  , Japan  , where  they can fool young people by teaching the art of living or meditation , following the principles of book called "The Secret" by "Rhonda Bryne" , only repeating them in their own way.

They watch Michael Jackson Videos , and listen to "Britney Spears"
Few take "Charas" as "Bhole ka Prashad".....and thus spoil the name of god.

There would be a time when these babas will have a 24*7 news channel ,would be 24*7 online , and have a job portal like "" and a political party , and will form a millatry  , besides Sanghs , Vhp's  , Bajrang Dal's , Ram Sene's and Karsevaks etc.

All these babas have decimated the meaning of "Sants" or "Saints".
They Don't Know who the saints or "bairaagi" are.Bairagees left their world for other people , but these babas can't leave only their mobiles for the sake of humanity ...

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The so called "Heaven on Earth" , "Kumbh Mela" , which comes once in 14 yrs. is a playground or advertisement ground for many of them.I  went to Kumbh Mela 2010 in haridwar and was shoked to see posters of "babas" and thier "chelas" stuffed on the roadside as an  election campaign , many of them were extremely provocative and couls cause a mob voilence and  , govt didn't noticed that.

There were slogans like "there is no hindu nation in whole earth"  & " why family planning is for us only  not others".

Thus Kumbh Mela is an occasion of good investment by various babas and thier " akhadas " . Even "naga babas" had precious Items , and "Kanwarias" are the another Shiv Sena in the process. "They are so arrogant that they jam the road , and if they see a vehicle coming they throw stones at them.

So Whenever you see a bearded person wearing an orange cloth coming towards you  , " Beware of those DhongiBabas and their Bhavishyavanis " !

Sunday, February 14, 2010

E - Love Aaj Kal (Funny Tale of Gen-x e-love)

Welcome to the new age , age of e-love. Gone are the days , when the flowers use to metaphorize love.In this e-age, you can give an e- rose from the flowers harvested in farmville in facebook.

If newton was born today , he would die!

Where relationships change every day , and one can e dump ur partner ,for those who have no power to face each other. For the e-generation material matters first , whether she is virgin or not , that matters.For e-gen or genx valentine day matters the most , but for older couple it is still "Belan time Day".

Nowadays we can DTR(Define the Relationship) as "Complicated" and boyfriends can be semi or quarter , semiboyfriends: boy has two gfs ,his body has two parts half for one and other half for other gf. It is an irony boys are divided as semiboyfriends while girls and women are not called nowadays as better halves , called as fiancees.Earlier boys looked at sindur of a woman ,or stare at her chest for mangalsutra and girls looked wedding ring of a man, where as nowadays a new trend hyphenated names like Aishwarya Rai-Bachachan which is a handy tool for determining a person status.

Today a person no matter how they look , can enjoy the e-relationships , they need to generate a far sightedness among his/her potential soul mates , just to make up a virtual image. ex : A case where a couple was dating for few years on a social networking website , and when they confronted each other ,they found that boy was very fat person , where as girl had wore specs.

Nowadays , Ecards are another tool for sending gifts , thus saving money and time of postage , they are the cards with a snappy personal messages written on them.Then there is an engagement ring at last which used to please girlfriend after a fight.

In Facebook world ,where an status update might me as destructive as an overdose of sleeping pills , it can devastate your relationship. Gen x Girls are a king of "attention maniacs" , ex: they ask how do I look , or how do I sing , and thus boy gets trained in all type of lies.Girls are nowadays self dramatized  , emotional attayachar , a whole stock of beauty products , as defined by boyz.In online facebook world gen-x set false relationship status , or false affairs to sell/show their datebility Quotient or to look cool among their virtual peers. They even change their hometown to a metropolitan city , so that their location looks petty cool.They post copied quotes from foreign locations , and upload special pics for their orkut or face book account.Also the genx chooses the coolest hangout like discos , or like pubs , girls like vodkas  , watch shows like "Splitsvilla" , or watch movies like "DevD" or whatever they call their father and mother as pops and moms.

At last my advice will be "Dikhave pe mat jao , apni akal lagao" , means " while choosing a partner for a relationship , apply the rules of our great grandfathers.

"Happy Valentine Day to all of you"   

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Achievements of Indian diaspora

Government greatest gifts to India with everlasting future impact
1. Failed "garibi hatao" experiments for decades by Congress Party ( resulting in Africa-like poverty in some parts of India)

2. Failed 'family planning' program for decades by Congress Party ( resulting in uncontrolled population growth) , while their family planning is excellent leading to uni rule of gandhi family , creating leaders deficit in india

3. Bofors bribery scandal swept under the rug to protect Antonia Miano (aka Sonia Gandhi) Italian connections and relatives

4. Giving India the pretence of a sham democracy. Puppetmaster Antonia Miano (aka Sonia Gandhi) staying in power without any accountability. Sonia surrounding herself with converted Christian leaders with Hindu sounding names like Digvijay Singh, Ambika Soni, YSR Reddy, Dharam Singh etc

5. A communist and christian run Indian media helps solidify Sonia's grip on power using propaganda. Rule of Congress assisted by hype and propaganda by the media.

6. Use of the CBI to cover up past mis-deeds - Sikh riots of 1984, Bofors bribery scandal etc

7. Maoism has spread like cancer to one-third of India on Congress government watch

8. Farmer suicides rampant on Congress government watch

9. Conversions of Hindus by Christians using money and material inducements coming from Western Churches

10. Surrender of Nepal to the communists because Sonia could care less for a Hindu Kingdom ( if Nepal had been Christain, Sonia would have intervened to prevent it from falling into the tentacles of Maoists)

11. Amnesty to 30 million illegal Bangladeshis who are used by Pakistan's ISI for anti-India activities

12. Fake Indian currency entering India more than ever thanks to the govt sleep at the switch for so many years.

13. Appeasement of Muslims and Christians ( a major party vote bank) , Appeasement of Muslim terrorist families with pensions, jobs, etc by the leadership

14. Do or die politics leading to Coalition Government , decision making slowed.

15. Encircling of India by China because of years of neglect of security on the border with China by the leadership

16. Surrender of Indian territory to Pakistan in 1948, 1971 and to China in 1962

17. Starting talks with pakistan , even they always send terrorists to india.

18. Starting Pvt. Universities leading to degradation of education system.

19. Believed in the failed Non Aligned Movement , due to which our army got the scrapped mig21's and many more after-wards.

20. Pseudo image of developing india , while food prices reaching a new high , and politicians filling their pockets on insreasing food prices.